Oh, I HATE THIS! It makes me feel like I am a burden to others when they do this. “Oh never mind” feels like “you’re not really worth me repeating things and you’re a pain in the ass.”
It happens sometimes. A friend or colleague is telling me a funny story or explaining an event that happened, and at some point I will ask “What did you say?” I got the beginning, but somewhere along the way I missed something and needed clarification of the last point. The speaker pauses, as if to think about the question, and replies “Never mind.” Usually, this is accompanied by a dismissive wave of the hand or shake of the head or both. I hate that, don’t you?
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